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Sexual Chemistry Between Two People – Do You Have It?
Some relationships shimmer with sexual chemistry – and some just do not have it. How do you know if you have sexual chemistry with your partner and what do you do when it is missing?
As a sex coach I am often asked about sexual chemistry between two people and sadly, when I am asked about it, it is usually not there. When there is sexual chemistry in a relationship, it is hard to miss it.
Sexual chemistry is the sexual energy between two people. It is that wonderful feeling of desire and passion towards another person. A relationship without sexual attraction is a friendship. If you do not lust after your partner, they may be a wonderful friend, but not someone that you want to make love to for the rest of your life. In this regard, it can be deeply disappointing for a couple who are generally well matched to discover that they do not complement each other all that well once the bedroom door is closed.
A lack of chemistry is not necessarily mutual either. It may be that one person gets turned on by another and therefore finds it very difficult to understand why their feelings are not reciprocated. However, it is unlikely that sexual feelings towards a sexual partner will ever change drastically if the spark is not there in the first place. You either have chemistry or you do not.
Why enter into a relationship without sexual chemistry?
Women in particular sometimes choose to commit to partners for reasons that have nothing to do with their sexuality. For example, a woman may choose a reliable, strong, trustworthy, responsible man to build a family with – it is an instinct that goes back to the caveman (or woman) days. Having someone to protect and provide for you and your offspring seems to be more important when choosing a mate than sexual pleasure at the time.
A few years on, women in relationships without sexual chemistry find that they are profoundly dissatisfied and want more. It is interesting that women often start questioning their own happiness levels on many different fronts at the age of forty and beyond. Sexually it has to do with realizing that you are getting older and a fear that you may not be as desirable as you were when you were twenty years younger – and wanting to make the most of the years you have left. There is nothing wrong with that of course, but it can lead to a lot of soul-searching – and some women make drastic changes to try and accommodate their own needs.
It is not always possible to boost sexual chemistry between two people dramatically if it lacks in the first instance, but you still have to take responsibility to be your best sexual self in any relationship if you choose to be in it. Make sure you educate yourself well. There is power in knowledge.
Do you want to know how to increase your sexual chemistry and make your sex life sizzle?
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